the Prophet came to visit 'Abdullah bin Thabit (when he was sick) and found him very close to death. He called out to him and he did not respond, so the Messenger of Allah said: Truly, to Allah we belong and truly, to Him we shall return, and said: We wanted you to live but we were overtaken by the decree of Allah, O Abu Ar-Rabi. The women screamed and wept, and Ibn Atik started telling them to quiet. The Messenger of Allah said: Leave them; when the inevitable comes, no one should weep. They said: What is the inevitable, O Messenger of Allah? He said: Death. His daughter said: I had hoped that you would become a martyr, for you had prepared yourself for it. The Messenger of Allah said: Allah, the Mighty and Sublime, has rewarded him according to his intention. What do you think martyrdom is? They said: Being killed for the sake of Allah. The Messenger of Allah said: Martyrdom is of seven types besides being killed for the sake of Allah. The one who dies of the plague is a martyr; the one who is crushed by a falling building is a martyr; the one who is crusheds by a falling building is a martyr; the one who dies of pleurisy is a martyr; the one who dies of pleurisy is a martyr; the one who is burned to death is a martyr, and the woman who dies in pregnancy is a martyr.

:Telah mengabarkan kepada kami 'Amru bin 'Ali dia berkata; telah menceritakan kepada kami Muhammad bin Ja'far dia berkata; telah menceritakan kepada kami Syu'bah dari Tsabit dia berkata; Aku mendengar Anas berkata; Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam bersabda: Sabar adalah ketika mendapat tekanan (gejolak hantaman) pertama kali.

'When news of the death of Zaid bin Harithah, Ja'far bin Abi Talib and 'Abdullah bin Rawahah was announced, the Messenger of Allah sat down and it could be seen that he was grieving. I was looking through a crack in the door, and a man came and said: 'Ja'far's womenfolk are weeping.' The Messenger of Allah said: 'Go and prevent them.' He went away, then he came back, and said: I told them not to do that, but they refused to stop; He said: Go and prevent them; He went away then he came back, and said: I told them not to do that, but they refused to stop. He said: 'Throw dust in their mouths.' Aishah said: I said: 'May Allah rub his nose in the dust, the one who is over there! You did not leave the Messenger of Allah alone but you were not going to do (what he told you to do).

:Telah mengabarkan kepada kami 'Amru bin 'Ali dia berkata; telah menceritakan kepada kami Yahya dia berkata; telah menceritakan kepada kami Syu'bah dia berkata; telah menceritakan kepada kami Abu Iyas Mu'awiyah bin Qurrah dari bapaknya radliallahu 'anhu bahwa seseorang menemui Nabi shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam dengan membawa anaknya beliau bertanya kepadanya: Apakah engkau mencintainya? ia menjawab: Kiranya Allah mencintaimu sebagaimana aku mencintainya. Kemudian hari anak itu meninggal dan ia pun merasa kehilangan. Lantas Ia bertanya tentang keadaan anaknya kepada beliau lalu beliau bersabda: Tidaklah engkau ingin mendatangi pintu surga kecuali telah engkau dapatkan anakmu membukanya untukmu.

The deceased is punished due to the weeping of his family for him.

:Telah mengabarkan kepada kami Suwaid bin Nashr dia berkata; telah menceritakan kepada kami 'Abdullah dia berkata; telah memberitakan kepada kami 'Umar bin Sa'id bin Abu Husain bahwa Amru bin Syu'aib menulis untuk Abdullah bin Abdurrahman bin Abu Husain yang menyatakan bela sungkawa kepadanya karena anaknya telah meninggal dunia. Dalam tulisan tersebut disebutkan; bahwa ia pernah mendengar bapaknya bercerita dari kakeknya Abdullah bin Amru bin Al Ash ia berkata Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam bersabda: Allah tidak ridha terhadap hamba-Nya yang beriman apabila sahabat karibnya dari penduduk bumi meninggal dunia -lalu ia bersabar dan mengharap pahala. Beliau bersabda: memperoleh ganjaran yang diperintahkan baginya selain surga.

I heard Muhammad bin Sirin say: It was mentioned in the presence of 'Imran bin Husain that the deceased is punished due to the weeping of the living.' 'Imran said: The Messenger of Allah said it.

:Telah mengabarkan kepada kami Ahmad bin 'Amru bin As Sarh dia berkata; telah menceritakan kepada kami Ibnu Wahb telah menceritakan kepadaku 'Amru dia berkata; telah menceritakan kepadaku Bukair bin 'Abdullah dari 'Imran bin Nafi' dari Hafsh bin 'Ubaidullah dari Anas bahwa Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam bersabda: Barang siapa berharap pahala dari ketiga anak kandungnya -yang telah meninggal dunia- maka ia akan masuk surga. Lalu ada seorang wanita berdiri ia berkata Bagaimana dengan dua anak? beliau bersabda: Atau dua anak. Wanita itu berkata; Duhai andai kata aku mengatakan 'Satu'.

Salim said: 'I heard 'Abdullah bin 'Umar say: 'Umar said: The Messenger of Allah said: The deceased is punished due to his family's weeping for him.'

:Telah mengabarkan kepada kami Yusuf bin Hammad dia berkata; telah menceritakan kepada kami 'Abdul Warits dari 'Abdul 'Aziz dari Anas dia berkata; Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam bersabda: Tidaklah seorang muslim yang ditinggal mati ketiga anaknya yang belum berusia dewasa kecuali Allah akan memasukannya ke surga karena keutamaan rahmat-Nya kepada mereka.